I had the opportunity to ask two attractive middle-aged women what they want in a man. What is it that they are looking for?
Instead of telling me that they want good looks or financial stability, they said they were attracted to a man with confidence.
That's right, confidence.
Confidence turns them on. They love it when a man is confident enough to approach them in a restaurant or a bar or standing in line at Starbucks. They love it when a man has the confidence to say "hi" and strike up a conversation.
No rehearsed "pick-up" lines. No over-the-top arrogance. Just good old-fashioned confidence in being the kind of man that a woman would want to talk to.
Maybe that can explain why gorgeous women are sometimes seen with not-so-gorgeous men. It's the confidence, baby.